‘Where There’s A Will … Well, There’s Another Way’, http://www.newswise.com/articles/where-there-s-a-will-well-there-s-another-way, Johns Hopkins University Carey Business School, Newswise (26-May-2015).
Secondary control
Secondary control can be described as a mindset in which one accepts and adapts to the fact that much of life can’t be bent to human will. (…) The idea of gaining mastery over your circumstances without having to conquer them is an important one. (…) Secondary control shouldn’t be viewed as a passive, second-best, last-resort strategy.